What can you do if certain people have a false perception of you because youv'e been misportrayed by others?

your being percieved as a person who isnt really who you are.





what can you do? especially when you feel its important that others have the correct perception of you as a person.


you want to be liked, loved and accepted, and you feel that the person others are portraying is incorrect, and not likeable and will cause others to avoid you.





like a defamation of your character, rubbishing who you are.





this is more of a hypothetical question really, really meaning what would you do in this instanceWhat can you do if certain people have a false perception of you because youv'e been misportrayed by others?
Show them the true you with your behavior and forget the rest, but do not go out of your way to do this. Be yourself as you are. If you're asked about it, say it was just their point of view that they believe that, then continue to behave as you do. They'll make their own judgements according to that.What can you do if certain people have a false perception of you because youv'e been misportrayed by others?
Stand strong keep your chin up and dont worry what others 'may' think you do not really know what they think after all.


be strong


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I would just be myself and others will see the true you.
First go to those people who have been told these things and find out what bad things they have been told about you and who said them. Then prove to them by whatever means necessary that that is a lie. Once you do that, anything else the lier says about you will be disregarded by this person.





Then go to the person who told them these things about you and repeat. You may be suprised to learn that someone has been lying to this person as well.





Keep this up till you find a guy who can't point you to anyone else because it was him who started the whole pack of lies. Then find out the truth about this guy. If he has been starting baseless rumours about you, it is a sure thing that he has done a lot of things that he doesn't want anyone to know about. Make sure you stick to the truth here, because there is plenty of truth that you can use against this scumbag.





If you do this you will find your reputation becomes very high indeed, and your friends will ignore anything bad said about you.
If the people who are having different perception about me, I will try to clear it out to them by different means. If they really need me, then they will try to know more about me. If they are of no concern to me, then I really don't care. ENOUGH of this world and 'THE PEOPLE'... NOW life your live for your own self. too much of publicity,,sighhh.


seriously... people have got nothing more to do so they simply waste their time by assuming all nonsense, ignoring what thoughts other people might have for them.





So you just clear it out to them by your positive gesture. and THATS IT.!!!
If it's on a one-to-one basis, I'll simply and conversationally provide a corrective story. If they buy it, fine, if not, too bad. I don't have any time for that nonsense anyway. That's a bunch of high school stuff. If you're IN high school, then keep in mind the world is much larger and as soon as it's over you won't have to associate with anyone you won't want. In fact, you still don't. You're there for school, right?





On the other hand, if it affects you professionally, you really should keep the record straight. Even to the point of getting another job. If someone is wrongfully slamming your business and you have a family to take care of, you should really pull the gloves off. (But smartly)
I don't know of any person who has only admirers and no critics. Just be yourself and don't allow the opinion others have about you to influence your actions.